Posted:Monday 04 August 2008,1:05:18 PM
Dear Pauline,
My heart goes out to you and your family. I am actually speechless and I can't find the right word to actually make you feel better... I know it's a hard time for you right now & it is IMPOSSIBLE not to think about it... but one thing for sure... Time will heal...
I had a miscarriage almost three months ago & I sometimes still 'think' about it... I had been blaming myself for not taking good care of it while it was still attached to my womb & the feeling was terrible... I'm sure you're feeling terrible too right now...
However, do cry it out whenever you feel like to... dun deal with it yourself... share with your hubby & your family... it's nothing wrong to cry in front of them... let them share your burden... let them feel your tears... I'm sure your hubby is feeling sad too... and both of you need each other to get it thru...
Only God knows what happened... but rest *ssure, my fren, that this bb of yours is now beside God, free from pain... To you, it might be a terrible things to do that God took your child away from you but, God surely has a reason for that...
Rest well & eat well to gain back your health... you are not alone... you still have us, mommies here to share your pain & your joy... and don't forget your other son... he needs you too... for his sake, you have to try to 'get up' as soon as you can...
May God heals your wound, your soul & bless you with the strength to weather this difficulties... God Bless! |
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