Adeline1306
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Posted:Tuesday 24 June 2008,9:46:01 AM

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She scolded my maid stupid and say that they should cook all the good vege for themselves and leave all the lousy ones for me.

So.. guess what happened? Everyday she'll cook long beans, ladies fingers and any bean vege..you just name it. Making me feel so irritated in the end.

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Adeline1306
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Posted:Tuesday 24 June 2008,9:43:06 AM

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3) Both my bb I bf so I insist of having my bb in my room including the cl just incase I need her, I just call her. Besides, my 1st loves to poo poo midnite. ha.ha.ha.

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Hi, Swee Eng.

Point 3: u meant that your CL slept in the same room as u & baby??? Or did u mean that your bb slept in same room as u & then u called 4 your CL when u needed her, like when bb poo-poo? (won't that b a bit troublesome, especially 4 CL cos she would have 2 wake up in the middle of the nite...? just curious...)

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Posted:Monday 23 June 2008,10:53:46 PM

Oh..    I forgot to add... when I not around..or sleeping, CL took advantage of maid..asking her to wash clothes and etc.

Then she'll treat maid good else she'll complain 101 things bout the maid hoping that you will sack the maid.

Then all type of vege was bought, and my maid did plant some vege. So my maid asked her to cook that vege for me.

She scolded my maid stupid and say that they should cook all the good vege for themselves and leave all the lousy ones for me.

So.. guess what happened? Everyday she'll cook long beans, ladies fingers and any bean vege..you just name it. Making me feel so irritated in the end.

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Posted:Sunday 22 June 2008,12:39:58 AM

Forgot to add-on, towards bb fullmoon, my CL request new blouse from me. My mil said some CL will request new blouse(maybe is custom).

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Posted:Sunday 22 June 2008,12:34:59 AM

Hi, I hired CL when I delivered my 1st bb. She not encouraged breastfeeding so for 2nd bb I decided not to hire CL. Here is my experience with my CL.

1) Marketing was done by my mil. Mil bought plenty of food, but CL everyday cook same food.
2) Bath water was prepared by CL for the 1st time. Then subsequent was prepared by my maid.
3) Bb same room with CL. So she took care the bb midnite.
4) RM2600 (2 yrs ago). Angpou RM100 from me & RM100 from my mil.

sweeeng8
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Posted:Saturday 21 June 2008,10:26:42 PM

1) Marketing was done by my mom and in law but I heard that some are kind enough to do marketing for you if it's not too far and no one to do it for you.. So basically its an agreement between the both of you.

2) they are suppose to take good care of you and bb...so definitely they have to boil the herbs water for you as and when you think you want to bath...of cos except raining days la... which not advisable to bath

3) Both my bb I bf so I insist of having my bb in my room including the cl just incase I need her, I just call her. Besides, my 1st loves to poo poo midnite. ha.ha.ha.

4) My CL cost 2800. angpau 200.

Adeline1306
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Posted:Friday 20 June 2008,5:46:07 PM

Hi. As my 1st CL who was my mum will not b around when my 2nd bb is born (she's in the States), I have 2 get a CL 4 my confinement this time round...

So I would like 2 know: how was your life with your CL like?

1) How was the marketing 4 your food done? by your family or by CL?
2) Did she prepare your bath water 4 u?
3) Did she take good care of bb at nite? I m wondering if I should let bb sleep with me at nite.. cos 4 my 1st bb, my hubby & I took care of bb at nite ourselves.
4) How much did your CL cost u? & how much was the ang-poh u gave 2 your CL?

Thanx 4 your feedback!