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Posted:Monday 30 June 2008,9:26:39 PM
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dear lingchze & all mommies..
i finally got my period yesterday!!!hehe..i never thought to be so happy to c blood...! : P
at ist a bit sked also..sked like last time..come little bit then stop..
but today whole day also a bit heavy..plus pimples coming out..n of cux feel cramp...
wow..if were to thin back..this month june was the month i last got period last year..
well..12 months past..got back period on the same month b4 i know i got preggy..
hehe...now is a great start for me for my plan..gambateh~
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Posted:Wednesday 25 June 2008,2:10:28 PM
sorry shirley, i replied very slow. not been active here recently.
well, dont worry lah. we are all still young, still got time to try for another baby mah... just dun stress yourself out ya? |
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Posted:Sunday 22 June 2008,2:04:21 PM
dear lingchze,
th for ur comfort. i can imagine how happy u r to c the 'blood'.
i know i will too when it comes..but till 2day...the last pill pescribe from doc finished.. still dun c any sign or any feel..
i guess mine will be little tough..as doc did the scan show blood is there but refused to flow..am kinda blur at the moment..my mood just swing up n down n even hold quarrel wif hubby which dun understand wat am feeling now at times.
i just cannot understand y the darn blood is there but dunwan to come down..wat terrify me was doc say bout the 'clearing'..
am sorry if i sound over but just trying to voice out
nothing will do but to wait
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lingchze
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Posted:Friday 20 June 2008,7:11:39 PM
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dear cso,
exactly like wat u say now..'refused 2 come down'...now i take the pill for 2 days..but still no sign..but i feel the cramp..hopefully is the sign of coming...i dun hope to go 4 any so call wat clearing...
Hi Waynee..
It's been few weeks since I last wrote.. been busy with my work:(
And I finally got my period:)) on 16/June.. the flow was heavy and i have a bit of cramp, but still ok, not as bad as before I was preggy..
when i saw the blood, i was so d*mn happy.. never tot I can be so happy when looking at period blood ...lol
today is the 5th day and it's clearing already.. a bit brownish now...
I think your period will come soon since we have the same experience of miscarriage at the same time:)
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Posted:Friday 20 June 2008,2:42:23 PM
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Hi mommies,
I would like to recommend all to try FertilityCare - a natural family awareness program that originates from US. It helps couple in various conditions like infertility, miscarriages & etc.
Many of you have already spent months trying and seeing your gynae/chinese doctor, not to mention the $$ that may have cost you. If you are open to consider other method, i hope you can just consider FertilityCare.
You may write to Ekea at fertilitycare.my@gm ail.com
Wish all mommies out there best of luck!
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Posted:Thursday 19 June 2008,2:12:10 PM
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dear cso,
exactly like wat u say now..'refused 2 come down'...now i take the pill for 2 days..but still no sign..but i feel the cramp..hopefully is the sign of coming...i dun hope to go 4 any so call wat clearing... |
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Posted:Thursday 19 June 2008,12:58:27 PM
Thanks CSO and Peimun.
Sometimes I feel very miserable because, MIL keeps mentioning the neighbour whom gave birth bb boy and bb girl. Those relatives keep asking when to have 2nd bb. Though I have a daught age 4, but PIL treat her like outsider, not their grand daughter. They only care about my SIL's children (age 6 girl and age 8-boy), double standard.
Due to this, my hubby keep asking why we can have 2nd so easy like our elder angel.
Both of us already stress in work, some more return home, looking at the faces of PIL and the way they treat us, really heart broken. 
anyway, i will be visiting my gynae next month to do the test for both of us. |
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Posted:Thursday 19 June 2008,11:42:52 AM
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Melissa, I'm having a lil bit of discharge today... but not period lar... wondering wat is taking my period so long to come...
Just got a news today... my fren's wife pregnant liao... first child... feel so envy... hehe...
am now counting the days for my p to come... never been so eager to see p... lol
CSO,
I think this few days is my ovulation day and I'm trying my best not to think about it......just relax.
Both my hubby and I did some test to find out the cause last week and the result show that my husband's sperm got problem. He got enough of the sperm but the sperm quality are not so ideal. Now he is taking some medication to improve it and of course we are advise to try for it too..... I think it's good to know the cause then only we can correct it and try again...... gambateh!
Dear Pei Mun
Just want to know what is the test for ur hubby? I have been trying for 2nd bb for 2 yrs liao, under clomid treatment for max of 6 mths liao, vitex also, but still no news. Visited my gynae, he tried to comfort me that there should be no problem for myself and hubby, just need to try harder (more projects), he refused to do the test for me.. wonder to go for another gynae, but dont know what the test is?
Actually, my hubby is very weak..i am worry this may affect the quality of his sperm. but chinese senseh said, he is fine. 
Hi Anne,
Did your gynae tell why you don't need the test? In my opinion, it's good to find out the cause and correct it then only we can try hard. At first, i'm so refuse to do all the tests as I believe that both my hubby and I are normal. And I did conceived last Dec but ended up a MC on weeks 6. Since my hubby also agreed to what my gynae advise, so we decided to take up the test to find out what is the cause. After we did the test and got the result, we feel so relief as we know the cause of our failure and it can be improve by taking the medicines. We don't need to try for it blindly every month.
The test that my husband carried out is the sperm test while I carried out 2 test which is the blood test and the HSG test. The blood test was done on the 2nd day of your cycle while the HSG test was done between the 7 to 10 days of your cycle. This HSG test is actually an X-ray of the uterus and fallopian tubes. You may check out more info for this test at:
http://www.ivf.com/hsg.html
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Posted:Thursday 19 June 2008,10:57:05 AM
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Melissa, I'm having a lil bit of discharge today... but not period lar... wondering wat is taking my period so long to come...
Just got a news today... my fren's wife pregnant liao... first child... feel so envy... hehe...
am now counting the days for my p to come... never been so eager to see p... lol
CSO,
I think this few days is my ovulation day and I'm trying my best not to think about it......just relax.
Both my hubby and I did some test to find out the cause last week and the result show that my husband's sperm got problem. He got enough of the sperm but the sperm quality are not so ideal. Now he is taking some medication to improve it and of course we are advise to try for it too..... I think it's good to know the cause then only we can correct it and try again...... gambateh!
Dear Pei Mun
Just want to know what is the test for ur hubby? I have been trying for 2nd bb for 2 yrs liao, under clomid treatment for max of 6 mths liao, vitex also, but still no news. Visited my gynae, he tried to comfort me that there should be no problem for myself and hubby, just need to try harder (more projects), he refused to do the test for me.. wonder to go for another gynae, but dont know what the test is?
Actually, my hubby is very weak..i am worry this may affect the quality of his sperm. but chinese senseh said, he is fine.
Hi Anne,
I think u are definitely very stressed rite now... u need to relax lar, my dear... i've been thru tat stage before and i know it's going to make things worse... I know how eager u are to have a bb... me too... unfortunately I have to stop for a time being due to my mc...
i know exactly how u feel... when i realised i just couldn't conceive, i started to think there's something wrong with me... sometimes, i did suspect if the problems lie with my hubby... i felt abnormal and i'm upset with myself, my body... I started to pressure myself & hubby to have more sex... just to have higher chances to get pregnant cos I dun know when i'm going to ovulate...
As a result, both hubby & I were tired... not only physically but also mentally... sex was like a 'homework' jotted down in our schedules... we were not enjoying it at all... I was so desperate that I neglected hubby's feeling... both of us had lost the intimacy feelings.... We used to enjoy sex very much & was always looking for opportunity to be alone... sex life was great & intimate... i guess, we got lost and lose our track...
Fortunately, I got back my mind and realised what I've done to my marriage... I don't deny tat bb is still in my mind.... but no more 'sex on schedule'... we only do it when we feel like doing it... and more foreplay than before... at least, we both enjoy sex now... but definitely not like wat we used to be... and we are still working things out...
Most important of all, u have to stop mentioning bb thingy when both of u are going to bed... let it be got sex or not... and also DON'T always remind hubby about his low sperm count & weak sperm... if u confirmed that ur hubby's sperm count low & weak, then, once and for all, consult a specialist for medication... after that, monitor ur lifestyles and see if there's a need in changing it... definitely no smoking & drinking for hubby... more Vitamin C & exercise for him... get the doc to tell him the do's and dont's... after tat, stop talking about it... otherwise, his self-esteem would definitely be affected... u can cook more 'herbal soup' for him to improve his health... just stop reminding him about his sperm... he already knows tat...
You have to know that STRESS is the main culprit... if u don't overcome tat, u are going to have a hard time conceiving... just like what i'm facing... the more I want, the harder it'll be... I'm taking vitex too... remember, vitex takes at least 6 months to show excellent results... do not expect immediate result when u started taking it...
Wh*t*ver it is, u are not alone... I'm facing wat u are going thru too... don't let STRESS take us down!... We 'jia you' together, ya... Good luck!
p/s: Melissa, u too, ya.... lol |
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Posted:Thursday 19 June 2008,10:18:31 AM
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dear pei mun,
i just got back from dr just now..sigh..am given a no good news..actually no big deal woh he say..erm..i also dunno where to start..
he say the blood lining at the womb there..the blood dun 'melt'..so my period dun come..he adviced to observe for for another 2 - 4 weeks..if the period dun come..he suggest i go for 'clearing' woh..then he say will dunno call wat process..to help me to be fertilize more to get preggy..
but i dun hope for that..i just wan everything to be back to normal..that's it..i'm sick going to hosiptal in n out..no more hospital thing for me unless for my next angel...
at the mean time, given pill to induce menses..hopefully it help..
sigh..really bothered..
Dear Waynee,
There was once my period delayed for 3 months and my gynae told me the same thing too... can see the menses lining but 'it' just refused to 'flow down'... tat was when i insisted to take the pills to make my p come... and tat month, i had very heavy period...
I'm planning to visit my gynae next week if there's still no sign of my period coming by end of this week... |
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Posted:Wednesday 18 June 2008,3:35:14 PM
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Melissa, I'm having a lil bit of discharge today... but not period lar... wondering wat is taking my period so long to come...
Just got a news today... my fren's wife pregnant liao... first child... feel so envy... hehe...
am now counting the days for my p to come... never been so eager to see p... lol
CSO,
I think this few days is my ovulation day and I'm trying my best not to think about it......just relax.
Both my hubby and I did some test to find out the cause last week and the result show that my husband's sperm got problem. He got enough of the sperm but the sperm quality are not so ideal. Now he is taking some medication to improve it and of course we are advise to try for it too..... I think it's good to know the cause then only we can correct it and try again...... gambateh!
Dear Pei Mun
Just want to know what is the test for ur hubby? I have been trying for 2nd bb for 2 yrs liao, under clomid treatment for max of 6 mths liao, vitex also, but still no news. Visited my gynae, he tried to comfort me that there should be no problem for myself and hubby, just need to try harder (more projects), he refused to do the test for me.. wonder to go for another gynae, but dont know what the test is?
Actually, my hubby is very weak..i am worry this may affect the quality of his sperm. but chinese senseh said, he is fine. |
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Posted:Tuesday 17 June 2008,4:27:20 PM
dear pei mun,
i just got back from dr just now..sigh..am given a no good news..actually no big deal woh he say..erm..i also dunno where to start..
he say the blood lining at the womb there..the blood dun 'melt'..so my period dun come..he adviced to observe for for another 2 - 4 weeks..if the period dun come..he suggest i go for 'clearing' woh..then he say will dunno call wat process..to help me to be fertilize more to get preggy..
but i dun hope for that..i just wan everything to be back to normal..that's it..i'm sick going to hosiptal in n out..no more hospital thing for me unless for my next angel...
at the mean time, given pill to induce menses..hopefully it help..
sigh..really bothered..
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Posted:Tuesday 17 June 2008,1:08:27 PM
Peimun, maybe u should go for a short holiday... hehe... or maybe go out for a date to create 'romantic' environment... at least, it make u stop thinking about it for a while... hehehe...
As for me, I'm still waiting for red light first... then, only green light... lol
Good luck ya,... |
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Posted:Tuesday 17 June 2008,12:46:21 PM
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Melissa, I'm having a lil bit of discharge today... but not period lar... wondering wat is taking my period so long to come...
Just got a news today... my fren's wife pregnant liao... first child... feel so envy... hehe...
am now counting the days for my p to come... never been so eager to see p... lol
CSO,
I think this few days is my ovulation day and I'm trying my best not to think about it......just relax.
Both my hubby and I did some test to find out the cause last week and the result show that my husband's sperm got problem. He got enough of the sperm but the sperm quality are not so ideal. Now he is taking some medication to improve it and of course we are advise to try for it too..... I think it's good to know the cause then only we can correct it and try again...... gambateh! |
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Posted:Tuesday 17 June 2008,12:20:51 PM
Melissa, I'm having a lil bit of discharge today... but not period lar... wondering wat is taking my period so long to come...
Just got a news today... my fren's wife pregnant liao... first child... feel so envy... hehe...
am now counting the days for my p to come... never been so eager to see p... lol |
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Posted:Tuesday 17 June 2008,11:14:17 AM
waynee,
what did your dr. said after your visit? Keep us posted ya...take care!
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Posted:Monday 16 June 2008,3:10:41 PM
2day am going to c my gynae..just call him up n told him i haven got my period back..
the ist thing he ask me is 'is it preggy'? i told him..nope..i check myself 3 days back..-ve...so arrange to c him tomolo
wish me luck..
prob he will gif me some hormone pill or pill to let my period come... actually afraid also now...sked got anything or not... |
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Posted:Monday 16 June 2008,1:44:43 PM
oh.. haha.. not really upset but then tiring.. haha... |
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