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Posted:Monday 30 July 2007,1:05:54 PM
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hi AidaR
i'm a bit more relax about it. hubby doesnt watch blue movies, what can i say, he is singapore trained. but if he were to do it, it'd say save me the trouble, as long as its not everyweek or so. sometimes man dont even need to watch or even be awake for them to come.
sometimes we just need a quick relase without much hassle.
take care
oh yes i agree, its quick release and sometimes convenient. i am merely saying that if amy's hubby is watching it and doing it to himself more than usual, she wont be posting her thoughts here.
my hubby and I do watch adult movies together but now too many hardcore, we prefer the softer kind where they dont show the genitals. hai ya, cannot elaborate lah, later get blocked! 
hey aida!! i made it.
well, for me n DH, he is against adult movies, hardcore or otherwise but i'm glad that we dont seem to have too much trouble at the moment although i'm just a coupla weeks to go. after bub comes, dunno lar! lol :P |
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Posted:Wednesday 20 June 2007,12:09:02 PM
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hi AidaR
i'm a bit more relax about it. hubby doesnt watch blue movies, what can i say, he is singapore trained. but if he were to do it, it'd say save me the trouble, as long as its not everyweek or so. sometimes man dont even need to watch or even be awake for them to come.
sometimes we just need a quick relase without much hassle.
take care
oh yes i agree, its quick release and sometimes convenient. i am merely saying that if amy's hubby is watching it and doing it to himself more than usual, she wont be posting her thoughts here.
my hubby and I do watch adult movies together but now too many hardcore, we prefer the softer kind where they dont show the genitals. hai ya, cannot elaborate lah, later get blocked! |
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Posted:Saturday 16 June 2007,3:21:35 AM
amy, there is a fine line that goes between watching blue film. some ppl are addicted to it. if your hubby watch and do it to himself, then something is wrong. i suggest you talk to him about what you feel about him watching and do it himself. maybe he feel is not getting much action from you.
remember, we are all mothers, but we are also all wives. and as husband and wife, we have needs. our children are priority but our marriage is important too. |
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Posted:Wednesday 13 June 2007,12:57:37 PM
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can i just say "just do it" ? i read somewhere that once you get started, it gets easier and easier. first few times probably are quick ones but hopefully it improves to 'wonman's standard' later on.
hi thr,
but if don hv the mood n urged how to start? me myself during preggy also don wan to hv tat, don knw y, maybe tired. after give birth hv to look after bb so no mood n some time i feel like must hurry up, rush the time to sleep rather than hv sex. haha... |
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Posted:Wednesday 30 May 2007,3:45:03 PM
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Can someone tell me, how is your feeling if you know your hubby like to watch blue film and DIY by himself. My hubby is that kind of person, most of the times i noticed he did that by himself without me around. Frankly speaking, i feel my heart and mind is painful when he did that...but he explained that the reason he watch is becoz don't want to let me too tired coz I am the month of 2 childs
Hi Mommie,
I understand that feeling. Evethough, i have never seen my hubby doing that, well, it does not mean that he will not do it.
The urges is low after pregnancy esp for women. We are always tired and occupied.
Recently, i have came across this product Elken LD Esteemand LD Venus? It seems like it will revive's the stamina and the urges back. It is made of natural Chinese herbs. Anyone tried b4? |
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Posted:Thursday 17 August 2006,8:44:08 AM
Can someone tell me, how is your feeling if you know your hubby like to watch blue film and DIY by himself. My hubby is that kind of person, most of the times i noticed he did that by himself without me around. Frankly speaking, i feel my heart and mind is painful when he did that...but he explained that the reason he watch is becoz don't want to let me too tired coz I am the month of 2 childs |
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Posted:Monday 17 July 2006,6:04:16 PM
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Posted:Thursday 13 July 2006,3:02:51 PM
same here. not soo interested in SEX. But my love towards my hubby never changed. Kasihan le.. |
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Posted:Wednesday 12 July 2006,3:45:37 PM
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Hi there,
Dunno why after give birth, i don't have any urge of having sex with my husband. Have anyone experience this? 
Hi there,
I oso have the same feeling as u... dunno why ler.. |
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Posted:Thursday 18 August 2005,1:58:51 PM
No problem...but I don't have MSN Messenger, only Yahoo Messenger
marinaza@yahoo.com
Actually, my hubby dah tak tahan coz during pregnancy we weren't as active as he'd want us to be...  |
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Posted:Tuesday 16 August 2005,2:13:41 PM
Hi
I had it after my 44th-day of confinement and I have to say that it is true about you being VERY fertile after pregnancy!
I got pregnant soon after and my two kids are of the same age....they were born in the same year. The elder one in January and the younger one in December  |
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Posted:Wednesday 15 June 2005,1:50:24 PM
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Even after 14 months I had my baby, I still don't have the urge to have sex. It has been reduced drastically to once or twice a month.
Sometime I still feel pain during intercourse and I will try to advoid it even initiated by husband. I wonder if the gynae has not done a good job in stiching?
Hi Elaine,
Don't feel bad as you're probably not the only Mom that is going thru this. I've been there too. This has a lot to do with our hormonal body changes that takes a while to go back to its normal self. Sometimes too....long.
I'm not a pro on this but I can share a bit of what I know. When we have a new addition, it's only natural that both Mom n Dad are more engrossed with the baby and its development at every stage than ourselves. Once in a while, it's good that you two, hubby and you, spend time alone rekindling that special intimate moment that you both used to enjoy. After all, it's because of these moments, that your lovely baby came along. Every now and then, it's good to hug, cuddle your hubby and do the stuffs that love is made of, vice versa, just to keep the love candle burning. This will help pump more adrenalin in your love life.
Sometimes, I even sent naughty sms-es to my hub to ask him if he's in the mood for a steamy passionate night or that I love him very much, every now and then.
When you're too dry during intercourse, use the gel that you can get in the pharmacy. Can't remember the name. Ask your gynae. Sometimes "foreplay" (Sorry I'm not going into details) helps in stimulating. So try that.
I hope you will get over this stage as I've when I had my first baby.
Good Luck and who knows, the second addition might just come along!
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Posted:Wednesday 15 June 2005,1:49:33 PM
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if you are dry during intercourse, you can try the Johnson& Johnson KY JELLY (the blue/white tube). It helps a lot and it is waterbased and can be used with condoms.
Hi, This Johnson& Johnson KY JELLY (the blue/white tube) izzit can be purchase in super market, watsons or gardian?
hi,
well, dun worry so much ok.. sometimes it is due to our baby tat makes us lost interest in sex.... take it easy things will chnange...
Hey everyone,
i suggest shall we set up a forum to discuss about this instead of thru here??
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Posted:Wednesday 05 January 2005,11:21:19 AM
Its normal to have that feelings. Maybe it is due to fatique because of the new addition in the family. Realizes it or not..it takes a lot of toll in raising up a baby. Or maybe you are cautious of the stitches. Its ok...take your time and try to relax. Sex is not a rush thing. It is an enjoyable moment if you want to appreciate it better. Try to talk to your hubby and discuss it openly. At the same time don't forget to prepare stuff like KY Jelly. It works well with me. Good luck. |
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Posted:Wednesday 17 March 2004,11:55:37 AM
For infections esp. fungal infection which can cause pain during intercourse (due to thining of tissue lining in the vagina), can be treated using antibiotic, it is normal for women to get the infection due to hormonal changes, so nothign to be embarassed with. It is advisable also to do your PAP SMEAR as schedule which can also detect cervical cancer and other infections. It is not painful, a bit uncomfortable but it lasted in a minute that you won't realize that it is over.
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Posted:Wednesday 17 March 2004,11:47:19 AM
if you are dry during intercourse, you can try the Johnson& Johnson KY JELLY (the blue/white tube). It helps a lot and it is waterbased and can be used with condoms.
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Posted:Tuesday 16 March 2004,3:43:39 PM
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Even after 14 months I had my baby, I still don't have the urge to have sex. It has been reduced drastically to once or twice a month.
Sometime I still feel pain during intercourse and I will try to advoid it even initiated by husband. I wonder if the gynae has not done a good job in stiching?
Pain can be the cause of many things. Very Often, it is cause by a light infection which is actually not harmful other than bringging us pain during intercause. This matter was always not brought to our gynae due to embarassment. I think you should discuss this with your doctor during your next visit if the pain persist.
Sometimes, it is also cause by our psychological well being. I think that you should try to relax more and even discuss it with your husband. He will then be able to understand what you are goign through and instead of going straight into sex, maybe you can start with a romantic dinner and see where things go from there.
I have been through what you are going through now, especially so since I choose to breast feed my baby. Some how or other, I just could not bring myself to do it. It is as if I am doing something sinful to my baby. I know that if I continue to keep mum about the problem, I may face problems with my marriage and decided to talk to my husband about it. he was very understanding and actually gone through a lot of trouble to rekindle the romance between us. During that stage, sex was not something that we thought off at all and it came back naturally and is even better than before.
At the same time, it has actually brough us even closer. Good luck! |
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Posted:Thursday 04 March 2004,11:18:32 AM
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Even after 14 months I had my baby, I still don't have the urge to have sex. It has been reduced drastically to once or twice a month.
Sometime I still feel pain during intercourse and I will try to advoid it even initiated by husband. I wonder if the gynae has not done a good job in stiching?
Hi Elaine,
Don't feel bad as you're probably not the only Mom that is going thru this. I've been there too. This has a lot to do with our hormonal body changes that takes a while to go back to its normal self. Sometimes too....long.
I'm not a pro on this but I can share a bit of what I know. When we have a new addition, it's only natural that both Mom n Dad are more engrossed with the baby and its development at every stage than ourselves. Once in a while, it's good that you two, hubby and you, spend time alone rekindling that special intimate moment that you both used to enjoy. After all, it's because of these moments, that your lovely baby came along. Every now and then, it's good to hug, cuddle your hubby and do the stuffs that love is made of, vice versa, just to keep the love candle burning. This will help pump more adrenalin in your love life.
Sometimes, I even sent naughty sms-es to my hub to ask him if he's in the mood for a steamy passionate night or that I love him very much, every now and then.
When you're too dry during intercourse, use the gel that you can get in the pharmacy. Can't remember the name. Ask your gynae. Sometimes "foreplay" (Sorry I'm not going into details) helps in stimulating. So try that.
I hope you will get over this stage as I've when I had my first baby.
Good Luck and who knows, the second addition might just come along!
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Posted:Wednesday 03 March 2004,5:49:18 PM
Even after 14 months I had my baby, I still don't have the urge to have sex. It has been reduced drastically to once or twice a month.
Sometime I still feel pain during intercourse and I will try to advoid it even initiated by husband. I wonder if the gynae has not done a good job in stiching? |
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