pb_llp
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Posted:Wednesday 26 December 2007,6:56:36 PM

hi all mummy,
for my baby girl , she know what time stick with who is the better choice ! like morning till afternoon stick with mother in law ! evening stick with my brother in law or sister in law ! at night sleeptime stick with me lo ! funny !

wuiteng
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Posted:Tuesday 18 December 2007,5:53:02 PM

hi,
my girl (3yo) used to cling and very close to me. but after i delivered my 2nd bb (son), she starts to go to my hubby. maybe becos my time with her has lessen and my scolding towards her has increased (maybe due to pressure from taking care of bb - feel terrible). whenever now she sees me soothing my son, she will walk to her dad and play cos she knows i need some quiet time. anyway, i find that it is a good thing as my hubby now can connect and bond with her which did not happen in the past. really happy that she has find another companion..:)

Sacha
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Posted:Tuesday 18 December 2007,11:25:24 AM

hi,
        My boy seems to be clingy towards his papa lately. Id hold him everytime we go out and my boy is ok with it but now...he is jumping to his papa while he's driving!!! He would sit on his papa's lap and sometimes hold the stering! If I try to get him, he will refuse and hold his papa's shirt or hold the steering so tightly! So kesian lor his mummy!...
When it comes to sleeping time....papa is forgotten!! hehehe...my boy would sleep on my tummy and if papa is around, he'd make noice asking him move away! Sometimes papa gets the kicks too Well....fair n square...

dreams_961
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Posted:Monday 14 August 2006,1:47:49 PM

helo mummies,

im having the same problems here. my 9 mths old boy are extrememly sticky to his daddy. beside my mum, I am the one who feed, bath and put him to sleep. i feel strange why my bb so sticky to his daddy???!! even sometimes when we go any friend's party or gathering, other ppl also notice that my bb is very sticky to his daddy.        my bb even cry if he see his daddy leaving to work or etc. cant even see his daddy going into toilet or kitchen. he will scream on top of his lung !!!        if im alone with bb, he seems okay. once daddy return form work, bb straight approach his daddy and leave me behind.       

Zarina_z
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Posted:Monday 14 August 2006,11:00:55 AM

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yes, i agree that girls will always loves dad more than mom.

i have 2 kids, one girl and one boy.
my daughter always "manja" her daddy... and my son always "manja" with me...cute??

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Different to me as all my kids, 2 gals & 1 boy always with their father. From bathe, play, bed time & even "susu time" they will search for the father to do for them rather than me! & it's really like giving me my own sweet time to do other thing like cooking, washing & cleaning. emmm.... sounds like mcm ibu tak de responsibility but that is the fact! Nak ubah pun tak boleh...children sometimes like to choose with whom they want to spend more time....

EVANWONG
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Posted:Monday 13 March 2006,12:28:11 PM

yes, i agree that girls will always loves dad more than mom.

i have 2 kids, one girl and one boy.
my daughter always "manja" her daddy... and my son always "manja" with me...cute??

seet ai peng
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Posted:Wednesday 08 March 2006,1:59:59 PM

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Children love the person who play or long time with them.

My daughter is take care by my mother, she will 'manja' my mother everytime she saw my mother.She like my mother to carry her out, she didn't let my mother go to others place within carry her.

After I back from work, I will play with her, so she will come to me once I back , but she don't want me to carry her in the morning because she know I will go to work without take her together.

She don't like my husband because he will scold her when she didn't listen to him.But, last week, he is on leave for a week and play and stay together with her. After 2 days, she love to 'manja' him.

For my opion, stay more time with children and play with them more.Children love adult talk and play with them

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terence
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Posted:Saturday 04 March 2006,7:18:10 PM

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my baby goes to her dad..cries when her dad leaves the room or walks away..
she doesn't want any other people except her dad..unless he's not around her..

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Hi,

Ya I agree kids tend to like "papa" better....Coz "mama" is the one who sits with them grilling through their school work and Dad is the FUN guy who brings them to Zoo, Playground....I work 12hrs a day for 6 days and Sunday 5hrs so my kids closer to their Papa ....

daph_c
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Posted:Friday 03 February 2006,2:03:55 PM

Does all babies go through this phase? My 22mth niece reacts the same way too...

My 1yr daughter however does the opposite...she'd put one hand at the back of each of our necks and push us toward one another to kiss.   

Wai Ying
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Posted:Thursday 02 February 2006,4:17:56 PM

I agree! My DD gets jealous too when I cuddle up with her daddy. She'll scream & try to separate us. But we'll invite her to join in & sometimes she take up the offer by wedging herself between us. Other times, she'll just scream. Sometimes we purposely do it just to see her reaction. She also doesn't like it when she sees my maid massaging my MIL's back.           

sazaly
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Posted:Thursday 02 February 2006,11:59:15 AM

The best thing about my doter is she always wanna spend more time with me. And I beleive its because I use to chat with her. Sometimes my parent and in law thought Im out of my mind. Im talking to her like she understand me. The bad thing is... she's a little bit jealous on my wife. Each time I hug my wife she will get mad. She used to swung things to my wife when we are hugging and kissing (not mouth kissing maaaa). Its funny you know..and we used to do it a lot just to see her reaction..hehehe...

daph_c
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Posted:Saturday 07 January 2006,11:54:45 AM

My daughter will cling to me if she's in an unfamiliar place or if she's sleepy or needs comforting or needs to eat. But, when it comes to playing...it's always daddy...Although she knows how to say mummy, she would never call me unless she desperately wants me...Whereas, she'll say daddy anytime of the day and some mornings, even before she opens her eyes "Da-Dee" will come out of her mouth first...She's definitely Daddy's Girl!

smleong
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Posted:Saturday 26 November 2005,11:40:44 AM

My daughter also don't like her father, because her father always made her cry.My husband will only hinks about him only, whatever he wants my girl play or do, he will force her, so my girl dislike him.He can not understand what she wants.

Like every night, if my husband bring her to sleep in the room, sure must heard her crying. She only wants her father if he go out.Like yesterday, my husband going to work late(normally he out 6.30am everyday) around 8am, she wake up already. after she saw her father changed, she quicky go out and sit down to get ready to wear shoe!!Ha!Ha!She tought her father is bring her out for shopping!

It's very funny to see my daughter's action now!

carren456
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Posted:Friday 25 November 2005,5:46:39 PM

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I do agree as well. A bb will always stick to a person who spend more time taking care of him or her.

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Hi, in my case is different. I am d 1 who spend more time wz my girl (14mths), bathe her, read to her but yet when my hubby comes home she wil go to him. No doubt hubby always play wz her but i am d 1 who company her d most as my hubby always need to go outstation to work.
She even can call 'ah pa' 'ah pa' but not 'ma ma'. Sometimes when hubby not ard she will still cal out 'ah pa' 'ah pa' while looking at our photos or b4 she goes 4 her afternoon nap or when she wakes up frm her nap.
Isnt she a daddy's girl? Hmmm.....    
Another thing i sometimes sakit hati is hubby sometimes rather play d video game or pc than jaga or play wz her but yet she still loves d ah pa so much.

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Well in my case, my bb loves to be wt me.    She will cry if I leave her eventhough she's wt her daddy.
Actually my daughter spends a great tiem with my aunt as she's the one who take care of her if I go to work.    But it's like she understand it so much.    Nobody can take her from me except my aunt, but as soon as I came back from work, I will go straight away to fetch her home.    She knows it, and she doesn't want my aunt anymore.    She will stick to me until I put her to bed.

VICKY CHONG
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Posted:Friday 25 November 2005,4:03:02 PM

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I do agree as well. A bb will always stick to a person who spend more time taking care of him or her.

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Hi, in my case is different. I am d 1 who spend more time wz my girl (14mths), bathe her, read to her but yet when my hubby comes home she wil go to him. No doubt hubby always play wz her but i am d 1 who company her d most as my hubby always need to go outstation to work.
She even can call 'ah pa' 'ah pa' but not 'ma ma'. Sometimes when hubby not ard she will still cal out 'ah pa' 'ah pa' while looking at our photos or b4 she goes 4 her afternoon nap or when she wakes up frm her nap.
Isnt she a daddy's girl? Hmmm.....    
Another thing i sometimes sakit hati is hubby sometimes rather play d video game or pc than jaga or play wz her but yet she still loves d ah pa so much.

yenfoon
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Posted:Thursday 03 November 2005,10:37:19 PM

Sumtimes,my girl will searching her dad when dreaming..Cos she loves him more than me...Ha,ha..She will oso shouted out "papa" "papa" during her sleep..

smleong
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Posted:Wednesday 02 November 2005,12:41:48 PM

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I do agree as well. A bb will always stick to a person who spend more time taking care of him or her.

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My baby is now 9 months old. I took care of him full day when he was born until 3 months old. Then i let nanny to take care of him day time. Besides his nanny, i am the only one will spend most of my time or all    my time with him when i am not working. But i really he kind of bully this poor mummy, he knows I dote on him so whatever he wants and i refure, he will cry until i surrender. For eg, i bring him to toys dept, he will cry if i put back the toys to to the rack but if his daddy bring him to toys dept, two of them can play well, daddy passes toys toys to him to play for awhile then take it back, and baby never cry but expect for next new toys. Oh My god!

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Sabrinavun
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Posted:Friday 07 October 2005,11:56:57 AM

I do agree as well. A bb will always stick to a person who spend more time taking care of him or her.

yuhuibeeabi
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Posted:Tuesday 04 October 2005,9:55:47 AM

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Children love the person who play or long time with them.

My daughter is take care by my mother, she will 'manja' my mother everytime she saw my mother.She like my mother to carry her out, she didn't let my mother go to others place within carry her.

After I back from work, I will play with her, so she will come to me once I back , but she don't want me to carry her in the morning because she know I will go to work without take her together.

She don't like my husband because he will scold her when she didn't listen to him.But, last week, he is on leave for a week and play and stay together with her. After 2 days, she love to 'manja' him.

For my opion, stay more time with children and play with them more.Children love adult talk and play with them

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